WHAT MAKES A GOOD LEADER?

The time of elections have come and gone and we have new leaders for our country. Due to the fact that I was in school and busy with the challenges of academic life, I didn’t follow the all the events of the election. However I haven’t been completely ignorant of the all that happened. A lot of what I read and heard saddened and disappointed me. I heard the supposed elite of our nation make statements that made me doubt their education. At the end of all debate about who should run, who should be allowed to rule, whose turn it is to rule, I asked myself one simple question – What makes a good leader? It is evident that majority of the people in our society have a twisted view of what it takes lead a nation, a state , a local government area or anything for that matter.
The main argument during this election was where (in terms of north, south, east or west )the new president should come from. That was the main concern of most people. The south wanted a southern president because they were of the opinion that the north has ruled for too long and have created the mess Nigeria is in. The north desired a northern president for reasons unknown to me (frankly I do not even care). I shudder at the implication of this. Look at the petty reasons we give for voting a leader, look at what we are focused on and yet we hope that Nigeria will move forward. As long as we think in such tribalistic terms, we as a people can never move forward. The implication of this is that if a man as evil as Hitler decides to run for a post then the south will root for him because he is a southerner ( assuming he is a southerner ) or the north will support him because he is from the north ( assuming he is a northerner). This clearly does speak well of our values or our priorities. So once again I ask the question- What makes a good leader? Do considerations of tribe and wealth tell us who can lead a people? Are leadership positions now things that we take in turns? Is the system of governance now a monarchy system instead of democracy? Is it now a birth right to rule ? are you qualified to rule because you are from a certain family, tribe? Are all these what determines a suitable leader?
A leader is not determined by birth, tribe, wealth or race. A good leader is determined by the strength of his heart, his integrity , his honour, his vision, humility, confidence, discipline, dedication and character. A good leader is someone who carries the best interest of his people wherever he goes. A good leader is someone who sees his position not as a right to control and dominate others but as an opportunity to serve. A leader is not determined by where he is from but by where he is going. Nigeria may be a country of many tribes but it is still one nation. As a people we are first and foremost Nigerians before we are northerners or southerners and so on. The tribal origin of a potential ruler should be the least of our concerns rather we should be focused on the character and reputation of the person who desires to lead.

The only way we can move forward as a nation is to see ourselves as nation. Nigeria may be one nation but we on an individual basis are yet to see ourselves as that. Tribalism is rooted deeply in our hearts. As long as we allow tribalism to control us, our behaviour and thinking, we would keep moving in separate directions and end up going nowhere. No tribe is to blame for Nigeria’s problems, we all are to blame. We are to a certain degree responsible for the nations downfall. Corruption is not peculiar to one tribe neither is integrity found in only one region. Every area or region have their share of good and bad eggs. Nigeria does not need a southern ,northern, eastern or western leader to progress. Nigeria in order to move forward requires a GOOD leader. It also requires that all of us on an individual and collective basis take our place and do our very best in all that we do. It requires that we rise up and become people of integrity, people who hold their leaders responsible, who are focused not only their own progress but on the progress of their community state and nation. It requires that you reading this blog rise up and TAKE YOUR PLACE wherever you are. A leader can only takes us so far but in the responsibility for making Nigeria great lies in our hands.

I will close with a statement by Henry Ford –“coming together is a beginning, keeping together is progress, working together – that is success.” We have come together as different tribes to become Nigeria, let us keep together and progress as Nigeria and finally let us- and we must - work together to make Nigeria a success. NIGERIANS ARISE AND T.Y.P

Signed,
NessaD

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posts may be delayed for awhile. Am in school trying to complete my project and that is taking up a lot of my time. So in view of that my posts will not be as regular. I will notify you on the facebook page when posts have been put up. Take care and don't forget to TYP in all you do

CRADLE CORRUPTION.

I have almost completed my university education and the things I have seen in my time in school make my heart heavy. What I have observed among my colleagues slowly feeds on my hope for the future generation and makes me appreciate the view of those who believe that the world can never get better.
As a Nigerian and an African , I know that the biggest problem facing the country and the continent is corruption at all levels. From the grass root to the very top of our society, corruption has eaten us up like a deadly cancer. It has spread it poison all over. In my school we have student unions and associations which all conduct elections to elect the officers for each academic year. For the past 3 years I have observed these electoral processes and I have grown more disheartened with each one. They simply mirror one a smaller scale , the corrupt system of Nigeria and most of Africa. Students backbite each other, start up false rumours about candidates in order to tarnish his or her good name. Most aspirants are only there for selfish reasons. They make promises that they never keep. Those who make it into office embezzle funds that students pay as dues. Tell me then the difference between this system of government and what goes on in the world at large . what strikes me as most unfortunate is the fact that these are the same people who will go out there , in the future, and run for various offices in government. They will get into office and most likely continue in their corruption and our situation as a country and continent will never change. If they mismanage little they will mismanage a lot.
I look around and I see my mates who are supposed to be the future of our nation , live life as though they have no moral conscience. They steal from their friends and family , cheat in exams and other areas of life and lie without batting an eyelid. In fact living a life without principle or restraint is the norm rather that the exception. Corrupt behaviour is hailed rather than condemned. Are these people the ones who will some turn around when they get into power and develop a sense of morality, principle and responsibility. If I can steal N1000 from my friend without remorse, cheat the food seller of her change and lie to my parents about my school fees, how difficult will it be for me to steal from a nation which has no ‘face’? No one started out stealing 12 billion. It started as small amounts which grew to bigger amounts and grew to even bigger amounts.
To carry yourself with dignity and a sense of responsibility is now a shame. How did things get so twisted ? How did our values become so mixed up? We learnt our ways from the previous generation. The examples our leaders and families set for us. We see those who are supposed to teach us the way say one thing and do another. All i have said paints a dismal picture . it looks like we are stuck in a continuous cycle where the cancer called corruption is passed on from one generation and right from the cradle our innocence is destroyed. However there is still hope. We can choose as individuals, communities and nations to say NO to the bad traits of our forefathers and consciously attune our minds and actions toward becoming a people of integrity. We can refuse to carry on in the legacy of corruption but with our generation establish a new legacy of honesty, truth and integrity. All it takes is one person to say no. There is wise saying which says : ‘better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness’ . Stop complaining and T.Y.P. In order to truly TAKE YOUR PLACE, you must change your story and not allow corruption be the legacy you leave behind for the next generation. I have chosen to take my place and say NO. What are you going to do?
Signed,
NessaD